Aggression

How to Stop Dog Aggression: Strangers, Other Dogs, & You

“Why is my dog suddenly aggressive?!” It’s scary regardless of whether it’s toward you, strangers, or other dogs. But don’t panic. In this article, you’ll learn what to do in the moment, the command that can calm your dog right away, and how to address the root cause for lasting change.

We’ll also break down the most common reasons behind sudden aggression, including what to watch for in older dogs. Keep reading to get clear, practical steps you can start using today!

Why Is My Dog Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me?

Why Is My Dog Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me?

Your dog is suddenly aggressive due to various possible causes, including medical conditions, fear, anxiety, or environmental stresses. If you notice other signs of discomfort or physical pain, contact your vet first.

Dog Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me, What Do I Do?

If your dog is suddenly aggressive towards you, it’s important to handle the situation with caution and understanding. Firstly, ensure your own safety by avoiding direct confrontation and giving your dog some space.

Try to identify any potential triggers such as recent changes in the home, routine disruptions, or signs of discomfort in your dog. In many cases, such aggression can be a sign of fear or pain. You should approach this behavior calmly without punishing the dog, as this can exacerbate fear and aggression.

Why Is My Dog Attacking Me All of a Sudden?

Sudden attacks from your dog can be rooted in pain or discomfort, fear, or a disruption in their routine or environment. Dogs might also exhibit aggressive behavior if they feel their territory is threatened or if there are changes in the family dynamics.

How to Calm Dog Being Aggressive

One of the best tools you can teach is the “settle” command, which helps your dog relax and refocus when they’re worked up. It’s especially useful during moments of aggression, frustration, or overstimulation.

What “settle” means: At its core, this command teaches your dog to pause, calm their energy, and lie down in a relaxed state.

How to train it:

  1. Start in a quiet, distraction-free spot.
  2. With a treat in hand, guide your dog into a down position.
  3. Say “settle” in a calm, steady voice as they lie down.
  4. The moment they relax, even briefly, reward with a treat and gentle praise.

Build it up: Practice daily, then gradually introduce the cue in more exciting situations (like before a walk or when visitors arrive). Over time, your dog will learn that “settle” means to let go of tension and focus on you instead of reacting.

This will help you control your dog’s aggression, but it’s important to remember that this type of behavior is typically a sign of underlying issues such as fear and anxiety.

And until you address those directly, you’ll continue to see problems in other areas.

“Well, how do I make these changes last?”

You address your dog’s issues at their root by developing their intelligence, that’s how! When they’re truly given the mental stimulation they need — in a loving, fun, instructional way — all their behavioral problems will quickly become a thing of the past.

To make this happen, you’ll play 21 “brain” games with your dog all developed by Adrienne, a CPDT-KA certified dog trainer whose work has been featured in USA Today and Every Dog magazine. See her incredible results in this video with a dog named Maggie (scroll down).

Adrienne’s training games will end all your dog’s bad behavior while also teaching them to sit, lie down, stay, heel, drop, and walk by your side. It’s all very simple and will be an absolute blast for you both. She explains how her system works here, go take a look!

Dog Aggression Toward Strangers and Other Dogs

Separate an Attacking Dog With the Wheelbarrow Technique

The wheelbarrow technique is done by standing behind your dog and carefully lifting their back legs off the ground, just high enough that their front paws stay on the floor. This puts them in a position where they can’t lunge forward, and it redirects their focus because they have to balance instead of attack.

Always keep a firm grip near the thighs, not the paws, to avoid injury, and only use this method as a last resort to safely break up aggression. When dealing with a dog fight, this is ideally done with two people, one on each dog.

In the Moment: Aggression Toward Strangers

If your dog growls, lunges, or barks at strangers, create distance immediately to reduce their stress and prevent escalation. Use your body to block their view or calmly move them to a safer spot while avoiding punishment, which can increase fear.

Training: Aggression Toward Strangers

Use desensitization by exposing your dog to strangers at a distance they can tolerate without reacting. Pair calm behavior with high-value treats and slowly reduce the distance over time to build trust and confidence.

In the Moment: Aggression Toward Other Dogs

When aggression flares around other dogs, redirect your dog’s focus with a treat or cue before they fixate. Cross the street, turn around, or use a barrier like a parked car to break their line of sight and reduce stimulation.

Training: Aggression Toward Other Dogs

Start with controlled exposure to calm dogs at a distance, rewarding your dog for ignoring them. Gradually reduce the distance over several sessions, always prioritizing calm, positive experiences to reshape your dog’s emotional response.

My Older Dog is Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me

My Older Dog is Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me

Sudden aggression in older dogs towards their owners can be particularly concerning. This behavior change may be due to various factors, including age-related cognitive decline, pain, or discomfort associated with health issues common in senior dogs.

Why is My Senior Dog Suddenly Aggressive Towards Me?

If your senior dog is suddenly aggressive towards you, it could be a sign of discomfort or confusion. As dogs age, they may experience changes in their vision, hearing, and cognitive function, leading to disorientation and fear-based anger displays like growing at you for no reason or getting aggressive at night.

It’s important to approach your dog calmly and with understanding, avoiding any actions that might startle or confuse them further. The “settle” command is also very helpful for these situations; learn it now in the first section.

Medical Reasons for Elder Dogs Suddenly Being Aggressive

Various medical conditions can contribute to aggression in older dogs. These include joint pain from arthritis, dental pain, or the onset of conditions like dementia or sensory impairments. If your senior dog is showing sudden aggression, a thorough veterinary examination is essential to identify any underlying health issues.

How to Relax an Aggressive Older Dog

To relax an aggressive older dog, provide a calm and predictable environment. Avoid surprising them and maintain a routine that they can easily follow. Gentle and consistent reassurance, combined with adjustments to their living space to accommodate any sensory losses, can help reduce stress and aggression in your senior dog.

Many dogs find soft music to be calming. Here’s a video you can try playing to relax your older dog being aggressive:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIEZaxlAUyw

You’re probably ready to get started now that you have all of your questions about your dog’s sudden aggression answered, so I’ll let you begin. Best wishes, and thanks for reading our article!

The Author

KB Williams

KB Williams

Hey there! I'm a dog behavior expert and lover of travel. Since 2016, I've been sharing my knowledge of dog training and behavior while exploring the Pacific Northwest with my two rescues.