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Why Does My Dog Take My Spot? (+What to Do!)

Ever caught yourself asking, “why does my dog take my spot” or “why does my dog steal my spot”? Whether it’s the couch or bed, many of us have gone through this experience of losing our favorite spots to our furry companions the second we stand up.

This article will explain the reasons why your dogs are taking or stealing your spot, including next to your partner or in bed. We’ll also provide tips on how to discourage this behavior, ensuring you can reclaim your favored spot without turning it into a game of musical chairs with your dog. Keep reading!

Why Does My Dog Take My Spot?

Why Does My Dog Take My Spot?

Your dog takes your spot for several possible reasons, including seeking comfort to relieve anxiety, wanting to be close to you, or marking territory by rubbing their scent. This behavior is common in dogs and often signifies their affection and trust towards their owners.

Why Does My Dog Steal My Spot?

Your dog steals your spot as a way of maintaining a close bond with you. Dogs are pack animals, and being close to their pack leader— in this case, you—provides them with a sense of security and comfort.

Additionally, the warmth and scent you leave behind can be very appealing to your dog, making your spot their preferred choice.

Why Does My Dog Always Take My Spot By My Partner?

Your dog always takes your spot by your partner as an expression of their desire to be close to the members of their pack. This behavior can also be driven by jealousy or competition for attention. Dogs often form strong bonds with their human family members and may seek to establish their place within the family dynamic by staying close to them.

How to Stop Dog Taking Your Spot

  • Train your dog to understand the “go to your bed” command. Start by guiding them to their bed using treats and giving the command. Reward them once they stay in their bed.
  • Consistently reinforce this command and provide positive reinforcement when they obey. This helps in creating a clear understanding of expected behavior.
  • Ensure your dog has a comfortable and appealing spot of their own. Investing in a cozy bed for your dog can make their designated area more enticing than your spot.
  • Avoid punishing your dog for taking your spot. Instead, use positive reinforcement to encourage the behavior you want to see.

Understanding why your dog takes your spot and addressing it by following these steps will help, but it’s important to remember that the underlying behavioral issues (anxiety, overprotectiveness, territoriality, etc.) that were causing all of this to begin with will still be present.

And until you address those, any positive changes you see will only be temporary.

“Well, how do I make these changes last?”

By getting your dog to truly choose to follow your direction, that’s how. I tried many times to write out how you can do that before deciding it made more sense to just link you to the free video series that explains it better than I’d ever be able to.

The series is by a man named Dan who is one of the world’s leading dog obedience trainers. In it, he teaches you how to put an end to things like your dog taking your spot and all other misbehavior using his fast and easy-to-follow methods.

In the first video, Dan will reveal to you why the two most common methods of dog training only doom you to failure. You can watch the video now by clicking here. Follow the proven system he’ll show you in his series and you’ll never have to spend another second worrying about your dog stealing your spot ever again!

Why Does My Dog Always Steal My Spot in Bed?

Why Does My Dog Steal My Spot?

Your dog always steals your spot in bed due to their instinct to be close to you, because they’re seeking comfort and warmth, or they like the scent you leave behind. This behavior is a sign of affection and trust, as your dog feels most secure and content when they’re close to their favorite human.

Why Does My Dog Take My Spot in Bed?

Your dog takes your spot in bed due to their natural desire for warmth and comfort. The spot you’ve just left is warm and carries your scent, making it incredibly appealing to your dog. This behavior also signifies their bond with you, as being in your spot makes them feel closer to you even when you’re not there.

Learn the steps you need to follow to get your dog to stop taking your spot in bed (or elsewhere) by going back to the first section now.

Dog Takes My Spot When I Get Up and Won’t Move

When your dog takes your spot as soon as you get up and refuses to move, it demonstrates their strong attachment to you and their preference for your presence. This stubbornness to move can also be a playful way of seeking attention, ensuring you interact with them before you can reclaim your spot.

How to Stop Dog Stealing My Spot in Bed

  • Encourage your dog to sleep in their own bed by making it comfortable and placing it near your bed to maintain closeness.
  • Use positive reinforcement to teach your dog the “go to bed” command. Reward them with treats and praise when they stay in their bed.
  • Be consistent with your commands and rewards to help your dog understand and adhere to the new sleeping arrangement.
  • If your dog continues to take your spot, gently guide them back to their bed each time, reinforcing the command and providing a reward for compliance.

Addressing your dog’s habit of stealing your spot in bed involves understanding their motivations and gently guiding them towards more appropriate behavior. With patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement, you can help your dog learn to respect your space while still feeling loved and secure.

You’re probably ready to get going now that you have all of your questions about your dog stealing your spot answered, so I’ll let you begin. Good luck, and thanks for reading our article “Why Does My Dog Take My Spot? (+What to Do!)”.

The Author

KB Williams

KB Williams

Hey there! I'm a dog behavior expert and lover of travel. Since 2016, I've been sharing my knowledge of dog training and behavior while exploring the Pacific Northwest with my two rescues.